Coincidence beyond chance. Jay in Texas writes:
My story starts when I was a junior in high school; I was 16. I had a friend whom we played softball together when we were younger, but not in the later years, so even though we had class together would rarely talk unless to say “hello”, maybe ask each other for help in class. Then out of the blue we would talk a lot more in class and once I did think, “Wow all this time in class and barely talk to each other now but didn’t read into then. We went back to the normal “hello” being we didn’t have the same group of friends therefore there wasn’t much we could talk about.
Within 2 months she was dead—died while drinking and driving maybe around November 2005. At that point beyond the shock, all I could think was why her. She was such a good person.
Within a month, not exactly which order because I never read into it before these two accidents, I saw a classmate that I hadn’t seen all through high school and we go to a relatively small school. We passed each other in the school parking lot. We said “hi” and that was the end of that. Then I thought wow, how weird I’ve never seen him all these years. As I’m typing this I’m remembering that he did play softball with me and the previous girl mentioned, but I don’t think we were ever on the same team. Anyways back to the story. After seeing him, or before, not sure, I thought “man you know who I haven’t seen and thought of, another male classmate” and put no more attention to it.
Well about three weeks later in December 2005, they were both involved in a car accident where one died at the scene, while the other boy died the following morning from his injuries.
At this point I was like how weird that I never seen them for a few years and finally see or think about them and this happens.
Next was another classmate that randomly popped in my head after we had all graduated, and within a month or so, he had also died in a car accident at the age of 20 in February 2009.
At this point it was just a little eerie. Some years passed and one day I called my cousin over to fix something for me, again we don’t hang around the same group of people, but are the same age so never really talked, but he came, fixed it for me free of charge and was on his way. When he left I kinda thought I wonder if he would die too because I hadn’t seen him in a while and now I saw him. And brushed this off because I thought, no, it can’t happen because I called him. I didn’t just randomly see him. Well I was with that for a few days and then forgot about it. Well within that month, I got a phone call from another cousin that a car similar to my cousin’s was involved in a wreck and friends had called him to let him know just in case turns out it was his car. He died In a car accident in July 2011. He was 22.
I was like this can’t be happening I need to stop thinking or seeing people I haven’t talked to, because they end up dying. Now in November 2011 a few months ago I finally told my cousin that had informed me of my cousin’s car accident of all these crazy things that seemed like a coincidence, and he didn’t put to much mind to it and said, “Well just don’t think about me.” When I finished telling him, I was like you know who I was thinking about, said the girl’s name and we both were like yeah that we hadn’t seen her in a while since we graduated high school.
Then within a month in December 2011, I was driving to college out of town when I seen a wreck on the other side of the highway, the police had white sheets out meaning someone had passed away. Well I went on my way to school and that weekend it was on the front page of the local paper there, the accident was the person who had died was the girl’s mother who had randomly popped into my head a month ago.
I thought to myself, there is definitely something to this of people popping into my head. Again I kinda brushed it off because I never believed in “that kind of stuff.” I will also add to my cousin’s accident that both sides of his family after the fact that there was at least one accident or multiple near accidents leading up to his death. We all thought what if we would have known this, we might have came to a conclusion that death was coming for someone that joined the two families.
The absolute final straw came when, about a week ago, my mom seen my aunt, her sister, and asked if someone was sick in the family because she had dreamed someone who was sick would die. My mom said, no, then recalled that a few people were sick such as aunts or uncles. Then my mom asked if this happened before, and she said yes, that she dreamed of my cousin’s accident, not in detail just an accident. She says her dreams usually happen, but she never knows who it’s gonna be. Also that my other aunt will have dreams of death, but can say who it is.
So I thought this is definitely something I should look into and came across your page. Feedback on if there are some spirits, forces or whatever going on here. And is this a gift? Or how can I use it or develop it?
Might be useless, but I clearly recall when I was about 12 when a few of my cousins and siblings were playing cards, decide to be dumb and guess cards. No one could do it but me! I guessed about three or four cards correct down to the suit on two of them. I believe then stopped cause I got bored and didn’t want to concentrate that hard to guess a card. But it’s stuck with me so long because I thought guessing that so many times was impossible and I’ve never really tried it again.
Please put this on your blog so I can get your opinion on my situation, thanks.
I think you have a gift to tune into the collective consciousness (the oneness of all, our connection to all living things); it’s been manifesting itself by hinting at coming losses. (I believe major events in our lives, including our deaths, are predetermined, and you’re plugging into that knowledge.) I believe using your sixth sense makes it stronger and more accurate, like exercising a muscle. There are plenty of books available, probably at your local library, with exercises to awaken your sixth sense. There might even be a local parapsychology group that meets near you. Meditation works. I did all that as well as studying spirituality, after death experience, various believes about the human soul — anything to open the door to the other side, except Ouija Board; it’s equal to opening your front door to strangers. Be careful who or what you invite in. Specifically state you only invite positive energy that is beneficial to you. Find a process that rings true for you, don’t blindly believe anyone, not even me. Find out for yourself.
Do good works. They’ll come back at ‘ya. — Kat
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